Hello! Are you a lover like me? Maybe you’ll find something to read here. You’ll find topics about boys/relationships. I also talk about friendships and family. Love isn’t just for boys, it’s for everyone! xx
Isn’t it strange that as an adult your friendships change quite drastically? You might even call it a friendship crisis. Friends just drop out of your life faster than you can blink. They often drop to critical levels.
Where once you had a good few people that you called friends, you now can count the ones that really matter to you on one hand.
You see, as you get older, you get busier. You just don’t have any time to commit to more relationships. Family and romantic partners take up a huge chunk of your time. On top of that you have real adult responsibilities.
I don’t have many guy friends and I specifically keep it that way. I find it can be quite uncomfortable sometimes. Especially if one of you likes the other but the other has seriously friend zoned you. It’s just all kinds of embarrassing and red face inducing.
Of course there are pros to having guy friends. For instance no drama!
I was just at my cousin’s wedding a couple of weeks ago and it made me think of how sometimes being a bridesmaid is the worst honour ever! Yes, it comes with its’ glorious name but at some point that is just not good enough.
I’ve been a bridesmaid and I’ve both loved it and hated.
Each experience has been different but there are definitely three things that were of significance in every bridesmaid ‘honouring’ I’ve ever had.